Being told to either step up or step aside, I decided to stand-down and focus on my so called year-off with apple day and popcorn and the parades, investitures, etc (I thought I was getting my 2-hours of week back, so to speak), anyways after watching Pres. Obama’s speech to Westpoint grads about increasing troop levels in Afghanistan, I felt compelled to carry-on the search. Yes, those grads were clapping for him even though some would probably die in combat. But that is another story…. I watched the Commish’s speeches via the internet…were we clapping for the death of an institution???....
Anyway, onto positive thoughts.

What struck me as missing from all of this (and I may have missed this too), was that there was not a lot of mention about parents. There was mention of kids and leader recruitment and retention, but there did not seem to be anything about ‘working on the parents’ for retention of the youth. I asked one of my parents why his son was not coming to weekend events, and I was told that Cubs fit the Wednesday night this year. Hockey and basketball took the weekends. This would be his only year in Cubs anyway. OK, so much for developing a long-term plan here. Generally, Cubs and Scout programs have that ‘three-year’ development plan. So, while the youth is completely enjoying Cubs, the parent will move him to something else. The best programming in the world would not prevent this. And, maybe this may be the key – selling the program to the parents, and selling it to them in three-year pieces. How many 1st year Cub aged children come to their parents and tell them they want to play hockey, or basketball or soccer or karate, etc… I would gather only a small percentage. Engaging the parents at the Beaver or early Cub stage about the extent and consistency of the programming may provide the positive element needed.
The danger here is the numbers. Even though the numbers are ‘up’ (due to interesting accounting practices – another story), the commanded increase in membership will just stretch the leadership and dilute the programs. Don’t necessarily ask parents to join Scouting as a leader, but join scouting as a parent (to help their youth along). Parent, while not leaders, can provide a wide ranging benefit to any program if they were asked to get involved with their youth’s development. Sometimes the strength of a group comes from the Group Committee which is made up by leaders and parents, ideally.